About energy and sex
“About ENERGY AND SEX
For those who take sex very lightly, I leave this information here.
Chakras regenerate every 7 years, so if you’ve been with a person even once, their energy will stay with you for 7 years. That is if you don’t clean there properly.
When you have sex with someone, a whole energetic process begins.
Mainly the root chakras (Muladhara) of both, come together and from this intimacy the auras merge, merge to create a great auric energy around the two.
Through separation, it leaves an energetic and karmic imprint. The more relationships you have with a person, the deeper the connection.
That’s why sometimes you remember so much about your ex or who you became intimate with and you change your vibration and create energetic links that bring them together where they then continue to transmit energy on a subtle level.
In every relationship, some of the other person’s energy is acquired. If you have relationships with people who are mainly dense, unconscious, devoid of light and love, unstable, then you acquire the same thing … You change to a paradigm where nothing makes you happy even though you have many reasons to be. If the other person did something that marked their karma, you acquire it and it can attract painful experiences.
On the contrary, if you are in a relationship with someone who is aware, full of light, full of love and who keeps their energy clean, a wonderful exchange of positive energy is generated for both people. Both grow in love and awareness.
The energy of love and sexuality is so great and magical that it vibrates so high that you reach an expanded state of consciousness. That energy also remains in you and me as new light codes.
If you sleep with a person who currently already has a partner, you consequently acquire the energy of that person and the partner (and the partner’s partners).
There are no culprits, only unconscious people and consequences. You are your own boss, you can change when you decide.
Why do we attract people into our lives whose relationships with us are empty, painful and dense?
- First by vibration: we attract what we vibrate.
- Second for learning: the other person is a reflection of you, he will show you your shadows so you can recognize them and work on them.
- The third due to internal conflicts: You did not learn to love, you did not learn to Value … Consequently, we relate to people of the same vibratory level. You can even become attached (“falling in love”) with someone like this, with the inability to love and value yourself until you end up using yourself. For it vibrationally perceives your need for Love, but only reflects your relationship with yourself. Love yourself and you will love others and others will love you.
This is not an invitation to not have sex, on the contrary, you must make LOVE as often as you want! But before that, vibrate up, to attract a person with whom you can be stable and help you grow and not tear down the evolutionary work.
People who have VIBRATION know how to choose LOVE and LIGHT.
Never sleep with someone you don’t want to be with, don’t do it out of revenge or because you have to…”
1. Strengthen your protective bubble to prevent a negative sexual exchange of energy
One of the best ways to protect yourself against anything (a negative person, bad luck, sickness, or a negative sexual energy exchange) is to visualize a protective bubble forming around you.
You can do this by sitting the same way you would when meditating. Get comfy, close your eyes, and visualize your whole body filling with pure white light. Next, imagine a sphere or bubble forming around you, keeping harmful vibrations and people away from your aura.
2. Do an energetic cleanse
One of the best things you can do to reduce the chances of exchanging negative energy is to energetically cleanse yourselves before (and after) having sex. You can do this by taking a bath, burning sage, working with crystals, or doing a candle ceremony. I’ll cover how to do this in more detail later in this post.
3. Voice what you want and need
A one-night stand is usually about having fun, seeking pleasure, and having a new experience, and there’s no shame in that. We all deserve this.
But when you’re having sex with someone who barely knows you and your body, you’ve got to communicate what you’re looking for. Speak up. Because this is the only way to get what you want from the experience, reduce your chances of absorbing negative energy, and wake up the next morning feeling awful.
4. Communicate your boundaries
Healthy, consensual sex is about setting boundaries and communicating these to your partner. We all have certain things we don’t want to do in the bedroom, and that’s okay. Tell the person in question what your “hard no’s” are, and ask them what they love and want to explore during sex together.
Unfortunately, there’s a lot of male-produced pornography that is violent and degrading towards women, which skews both men’s and women’s ideas about what sex is meant to be like and what is and isn’t okay.
I want you to know that you have every right to not be okay with something. Who gives a fuck if “everyone is doing it”? You’re not everyone, so don’t force yourself or let yourself be manipulated into doing anything you don’t want to do.
In fact, as soon as you notice someone is trying to get you to cross your own boundaries even though you’ve been clear, it’s a sign that this person doesn’t respect you. I’d encourage you to walk away.
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Source: Radu Adrian Delea
